Islamic lifestyle with a focus on health

Islamic lifestyle with a focus on health

The Effect and Role of the Correct way of Conversation in Lifestyle on the prevention of divorce

Document Type : Original Article

Author
Tayebeh Zareie
Assistant Professor, Department of Education, Kermanshah Branch, Islamic Azad University, Kermanshah, Iran
Abstract
Background and Objective: Divorce is one of the complex social issues that is affected by various causes and factors, including lack of attention or failure to conduct proper and timely conversation. Therefore, awareness of the correct time and method of conversation is important to prevent it. Therefore, the purpose of the present study is to study and investigate the correct path and time of conversation in order to prevent divorce and family conflicts.
Materials and Methods: The present study is qualitative and descriptive-analytical in nature, with the aim of identifying and presenting an applied model of the correct path and time of conversation in family conflicts in order to prevent divorce and family conflicts.
Findings: Awareness of the methods of achieving and conducting proper conversation along with knowing when to benefit from it, that is, in advance, topics and issues prone to arguments and conflicts, can be effective in preventing divorce.
Conclusion: Families' awareness of the correct use of dialogue at the right time, that is, before violating privacy and dignity, with sufficient knowledge and understanding, desirable insight and attitude, and appropriate performance, along with awareness of the importance of dialogue, provides the basis for preventing divorce and resolving many undesirable conflicts.
Keywords
constructive dialogue
Divorce prevention
Islamic lifestyle
  1. The Holy Quran

 

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